Holy Ground, Ordinary Lives

The Consequences of Moral Choices

Our choices in life make a difference each and every day. Living on holy ground, recognizing the sacredness of the ordinary; realizing, that in every moment we can choose to side with our values, as informed by our belief, or run counter to our sense of morality. Yet, in making the wrong moral choices for ourselves, scripture shows that we may become distanced from G-d, until we do teshuvah (repentance). G-d encourages us to make the right decisions for ourselves and choose life.

What are your thoughts on the relationship between free will and the consequences for our decisions in life?

Connecting the Dots

motzei Shabbos: parasha Mikeitz 5784

“And they said one to another: ‘We are verily guilty concerning our brother, in that we saw the distress of his soul, when he besought us, and we would not hear; therefore is this distress come upon us.’” – Genesis 42:21, JPS

As conveyed by the midrash, the righteous are content, when submitting to G-d’s retribution in acknowledgment of His Justice. For, His ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55). According to R’ Bachya, “It is the customary thing for righteous people to acknowledge mistakes they have made and to acknowledge G-d’s justice when they feel they are being punished for some sin” (R’ Bachya, sefaria.org).

Therefore, how much moreso should we emulate the example of the righteous, by not only acknowledging our mistakes as individuals, rather, also, by accepting the consequences? How many us can accept with equanimity, the consequences of our actions?

As is written elsewhere, concerning our awareness of the blessings and curses in our lives, resulting from our obedience or disobedience toward G-d’s directives. This is an active principle of the Torah, that will draw us back to H’Shem upon its actual realization:

“And it shall come to pass, when all these things are come upon thee, the blessing and the curse, which I have set before thee, and thou shalt bethink thyself [take it to heart] among all the nations, whither HaShem thy G-d hath driven thee, and shalt return unto HaShem thy G-d” (Deuteronomy 30:1-2, JPS).

When we reflect on the causal connection, between our conduct, and the consequences (both curses and blessings) thereof, then, we will do teshuvah, in acknowledgment of the Almighty’s sovereignty over our lives.

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shiur: Shabbat Shuvah 5784

After Adam and Chava ate from the Tree of Knowledge, H’Shem called to Adam, “Where art thou?” (Genesis 3:9, JPS, 1917 Tanach). He responded, “I heard Thy voice in the garden, and I was afraid… so I hid myself” (Genesis 3:10, JPS 1917 Tanach). Adam’s shame compelled him to hide himself. Yet, G-d is all-knowing, as well as omnipresent (everywhere present). He surely knew where Adam was. Then, why did he ask, “Where are you?” The answer often given, is that G-d was challenging Adam’s own awareness, in effect, asking, “Where are you” in your relationship with me?

We learn in the Book of Isaiah that sin separates us from G-d (Isaiah 59:2). Adam and Chava (Eve) lost the oneness that they had with H’Shem; as a result of their transgression, they were expelled from Gan Eden, for having partaken from the tree of knowledge of good and evil. Up until that point, everything that they experienced in Gan Eden was in one accord with H’Shem, a nondual perspective. Yet, after eating from the tree that was forbidden to eat from, they became aware of good and evil. For this reason, even today, there is not only the external manifestation of good and evil in the world; there is also an admixture of good and bad in everything we do.

Like Adam and Chava, we cannot hide from H’Shem. He knows our thoughts, speech and behavior. Sin separates us from Him; the path to return is through actually admitting our transgressions, unlike the first couple, who circumvented G-d’s questions. At this time of year, during the Ten Days of Awe, and especially on Shabbat Shuvah (the Sabbath of Return), we are all asked, “Where are you?” G-d is prompting us to reveal our sins to Him. Yet, sometimes, our sins may be hidden from ourselves; in this case, we may ask Him to reveal our sins to us. Gemar chatimah tovah – a good final sealing.